becoming a mother...

Diavasa stin Kourouna sxetika me afto to neo nomosxedio.Proswpika diafwnw.Alla me provlimatizei to thema tis yiothesias.Stin oikogeneia mou exw 2 yiothetimenous theious.Kai oi 2 einai eksairetikoi anthrwpoi kai milane gia tous anthrwpous pou tous megalwsan san na einai pragmatikoi tous goneis.To yiothetimeno paidi den einai kseno.Einai diko sou paidi.Oi kindynoi omws kai ta riska einai terastia.Yparxoun sovares astheneies pou exei apodeixthei oti einai klironomikis fysews (p.x. sxizofreneia,epilipsia) kai syxna den ekdilwnontai sta prwta xronia zwis(epipleon prokeitai gia astheneies pou to vathos tous sto xrono mporei na ftanei se propappoudes kai progiagiades).Kai dystixws den einai liges oi periptwseis pou tis synantame.Thelei loipon na exeis kotsia gia na yiothetiseis ena paidi.Tha einai ena paidi me "agnwsta" gonidia pou mporei ana pasa stigmi na ekfrastoun,asxeta me ti diki sou swsti anatrofi pou tha tou dwseis.
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Na mou peis twra kai pou ksereis ti gonidia kouvalaei o syntrofos sou apo pappou pros pappou?H alitheia einai oti kai afto einai risko.Gnwrizw periptwsi opou i gynaika ekrypse ston antra tis oti eixe epiliptiki theia.Mexri na ginoun oi prwtes eksetaseis otan itan egyos kai mexri na sigoureftei afou gennise oti to paidi itan mia xara ygies, to myalo tis evaze 1002 kakies skepseis.
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Stin periptwsi loipon tis ekswswmatikis gonimopoiisis periorizeis ton kindyno agnwstwn se sena klironomikwn astheneiwn.Me to na ginesai mitera omws sta 50 kai sta 60 sou afksaneis ton kindyno na genniseis paidi me alles astheneies(p.x. diaviti k.a.).Syn tois allois an to xasma paidiwn-goniwn einai megalo,stin periptwsi afti einai teraaastio.
As ta zygizei o kathenas swsta sto myalo tou kai na kataligei se apofaseis me vasi to kalo twn paidiwn kai oxi apla me vasi tin ikanopoiisi twn "thelw" kai tou egwismou tou.Giati mia zwi ta paidia xrewnontai tis "lathos apofaseis".